You're talking about your wife before you two have been married almost 40 years, which is incredible. Everyone always asks what's the key to making it work? So do you know, do you have not screwing around is *** huge key faithful. And you know, you can do *** lot, you can leave your underwear on the door knob for the rest of your life. If you don't screw around *** lot of it does get you *** lot of, you know, I don't really, we have *** good time. I'm one of those people, I'm I'm *** huge believer in low self esteem. You know, the only people with high self esteem are actors and criminals. Got it okay. You know, if you have low self esteem, you don't think you're the smartest person in the room, You don't think you have all the answers. So you you tend to listen. And I married someone that that was, you know, I always tell guys when they meet *** woman, marry your conscience, marry someone who is the person you wish you could be, and it works out okay. You know, I had *** discussion with somebody once he said, I met this girl, She's crazy. But the sex is unbelievable. I go great when the sex is over, she's still crazy. You have *** crazy person for 23 hours of the day when you're not having 24 hours, 23 minutes, whatever, whatever it is, that's what I'm saying, are you saying that you have low self esteem, that I'm *** huge believer in low self, So I was I was not *** good student and the cure for dyslexia when I was *** kid, was this smart enough, smart enough, smart enough and eventually I smart enough, it's not like today where you have all the things, people just going, hey, pay attention, you know, that kind of thing, you know? But I I low self esteem is good because you don't automatically think you're *** genius. You don't think you're the smartest and you listen to other people and you take advice. What do you guys do for fun these days? Guys meeting my Yeah, well we enjoy practicing various marital obligations. That's fun. But I'm *** big, my wife likes to travel. We have *** lot of, we have *** good time.